In 48 hours, my daughter turns 20. No more “teen” attached to her name. Just a young woman, full-grown, wild-hearted, and walking into her own story. And me? I’m feeling everything. Pride, nostalgia, grief, relief… it’s all swirling like one big emotional smoothie. Someone told me tonight, “You’re such a good mom. I strive to be like you.” And whether I fully believe that or not, it stopped me in my tracks. Because I started replaying the last 20 years. We’ve walked through f

You know… I’ve been sitting with this thought lately: What if most of what we call anger is actually ungrieved pain? I’ve been watching people: families, clients, even believers stay stuck in cycles that all trace back to one quiet thing: They never grieved what died!!! And I don’t just mean death in the physical sense. I mean the death of expectations. The death of childhood innocence. The death of dreams, safety, relationships, opportunities… and nobody ever sat down and sa

Tonight, I had an interest meeting with a potential client for Present Choice Center and y’all, it went amazing! The energy was on point,...

"You're doing better than you would have done, but you're not done doing better." — God Earlier today while scrolling my FYP , a...

As I prepare to walk into my birthday on July 4, 2025, I'm sitting here reflecting — not just thinking about what I’ve been through, but...

“She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.” – Proverbs 31:25 To say the least, my daughter is...

Hello, my name is Sonia! Sometimes Soni. And in the future, another personal name for my grandbabies!😉 My Aka's are Bishop, prophet,...

Resetting causes us to return to its original setting as if it were new. It brings us back to a place where all things were working well...

As I look back over my life and see the choices I have made. There are places where I can say, I lost my way! I didn't realize that was...

Happy 3rd Anniversary to my baby, God's vision, and God's blessing, Present Choice Center!!!! Within 3 years, there has been plenty of...

*Late Posting* So today is May 18th, 2023.  And I feel like there's an urge to write today because I don't talk about why today is...

So, there are these uploads I like to share called 'Sonia says'. There are some already uploaded on my Instagram and Facebook pages. But...

So, stepping out on faith is easier said than done. And as I help others navigate through their roadblocks... unfortunately, I must...